AsToldByShan

Welcome back to AsToldByShanise! Today we will be having a different and maybe difficult type of conversation. Let’s get into it….

Haechan of Nct was just mobbed at the airport following rumors of him having a girlfriend. He had insults thrown his way and was unable to walk comfortably though at some points.

And here’s the thing …

It is perfectly normal to be a fan of these boys and LOVE idols . That is literally what their “idol” persona is created for . But it gets a point where it can create delusional and dangerous environments for the idols themselves. Their should NEVER be a time or moment where they’re are walking and being insulted and or harmed physically.

We are truly seeing the fall of kpop and being a Stan. I’ve been a fan or hardcore Stan of many things and people. But never in my life have I sat and thought to stalk them at their homes. send death threats to them or their loved ones. Create false narratives that could harm them and their livelihood. Or look up personal hotel and or flight information, to then post online for the world to see.

No one should have to go through all of that insanity to just live out their passion and do their job! He recently just came on live post mark leaving , to speak so highly of mark and nct . And to say he likes being an Idol and comfortably spoke with fans and constantly reassured them. I really don’t blame mark for leaving this industry behind. It’s gotten so incredibly toxic and with no rewards . yes they get fame and money, but at what cost ?! Haechan is so lovely with fans and so patient . Don’t make him regret how open he is with us !

Stop spreading false information about your favorite idols and stop harassing them! You’re causing more harm and zero good. They don’t owe you anything of their personal life!! Respect their space and boundaries!

And stop to think… if being a STAN of something is making you become irrational and unstable mentally, you need to seriously seek professional help. and go outside and get some sunlight ! Take a step back and relax. This ,being a fan of someone is supposed to be fun and lighthearted. It’s supposed to all be about the music and nothing else .

Thanks For Reading!