Here’s the thing, I was bullied Throughout school. From elementary to highschool. Not to bad but bad enough where I didn’t want to go to school and never spoke a word of it to my family. And it was always the same type of girls- loud, and insecure. It bothered me that these girls didn’t like me, even though they had no reason to. So I worked constantly to become someone they would like, changed myself, and made myself smaller so they would be happy. Did it work,? Sure did, those same bullies that hated me now we’re my friends. They went on and on about how pretty I was and how funny I was. Funny how they didn’t think that before I changed. Flash forward to my adult life and I’m still dealing with those same type of girls-. Except now they’re grown women in their 30s and with kids. It baffles me how those girls never really grew up and now they’re adult bullies still trying to make me feel like shit for being myself. Well guess what? SCREW THEM!!! Im not gonna make myself small to make these adult bullies happy, if you can’t take me in all my dry, sarcastic humor, then you just can’tt take me ! And that’s okay. I’ve never intentionally set out to upset anyone, I’ve always just been myself. Which has upset a certain type of girls- my whole life. It took me years to finally realize you won’t be for everybody and not everyone will like you unless you change yourself to make them happy. But I’m not 12 anymore and they don’t scare me, I will no longer live small so they can live large. And if people constantly hate on you because of personality traits and it bothers them, you must really be that BITCH.( Sorry mum)
PS.- adult bullies are really sad and pathetic. Grow up and perhaps get a hobby.
AsToldByShanise 