What I miss

If corona has taught us anything it’s to appreciate the little things in life we would take for granted. Here’s some of the simple things I miss terribly that I took for granted because I though “ I’ll just do it next weekend”.

1. Friends- I use to cancel and back out of so many things with my friends. After this is all over I won’t turn down a single plan

2. Bars/clubs- I used to HATE going out to clubs . And only tolerated bars because they can be chill. But since being on lockdown for about a month and going crazy.. I can’t WAIT to go out and let loose and have fun.

Restaurants. Parks. THE MALL. And just being around other people in general. I miss it all so much and can’t for it all to over. What do you miss ?! What did you take for granted?!

What I’ve been doing during “RONA”

I know times are hard for most and uncertain for us all, but here’s what I’ve been doing to keep me sane!

1.meditation

2.working out

3.doing facials

4.watching the same Netflix shows over and over(brings me comfort)

5. Everyday I start with the mantra “I’m grateful, I’m thankful, I’m blessed” it helps to put things into perspective.

I know things suck right now and everything is closed and people are dying rapidly, but we have to remember to follow what the surgeon general is telling us and to stay inside and wash it hands!! If everyone follows he rules set in place this will be over much sooner. It blows my mind how some governors aren’t taking this serious and letting people go out and crowd places. This will never be over if everyone doesn’t all come together.

Stay positive and stay inside!

Great films I’ve watched recently

Here are some of the films I’ve watched in the last few weeks that were AMAZING.

1. Knives out- now I get the hype around it. Amazing performance from Everyone. Especially Chris Evans. I love him as there hero, but love him even more as the bad guy.

2.the invisible man. Now upon seeing the commercials I will admit I thought it looked a bit silly. But oh man oh man this is without a doubt one of the best films of 2020. Elizabeth Moss is a BEAST!! And carries this entire movie on her back !

3. The gentlemen. What a pleasant surprise. I happen to be one of those girls who can enjoy a little man ensemble nonsense film from time to time. Especially when the men are handsome. This film is an excellent film though and I’m surprised I didn’t hear to much praise about it when it came out. It’s super clever and funny. And everyone gives an outstanding performance.

4.zombieland 2. Not much to say about this one other than I enjoyed it very much . And it’s what you expect from a zombie comedy.

What have you been watching in self isolation? Any of these films?

Let’s talk about (masturbation)

Let’s about it shall we. If you bring this up among women now a days everyone gets uncomfortable like we’re talking about something forbidden. But let’s just get to the point, masturbation is extremely important for women! You get to know yourself and what you like. Most of the time your first orgasms are with yourself. How can you ever tell your partner what you like if you don’t even know what you like?! Do you know how many girls I know that haven’t EVER touched themselves or had an orgasm!? It breaks my heart that women feel so disgusted with the thought that they rarely try it. You can’t always depend on a guy to get you off when you don’t even know if he’s doing what you need. My advice touch yourself sis! It’s okay , nobody will ever know. You won’t go to hell and your lady downstairs will thank you for it. Get a vibrator if you don’t actually wanna touch yourself. But let me tell you , once you start this train your sex life will be miles better. Happy fingering👌🏿 xoxo

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Feminist playlist 🗡

Some bops to celebrate being a woman all day everyday!

1. Bea Miller- bitch

2.mae muller -dick

3. Little mix -salute

4.destinys child-independent women

5. The entire birds of prey soundtrack-you’re welcome🗡🔥

6. Halsey- nightmare

7. The cheetah girls- girl power

8.the cheetah girls-Cinderella

9. Cardi b-Bodak yellow

10. Beyoncé- upgrade you

11. Little mix -power

12.little mix – Joan of arc

13. Miley Cyrus -mothers daughter

I will probably add more as I think of them. But these are my current faves. And I cannot get enough of the birds of prey soundtrack!!!

Wine Wednesday’s

Hello. As I sit here drinking my rather large glass of red wine and watching the vampire diaries for the 100th time, I thought “self why won’t you do a wine Wednesday’s where you ramble about shit but drunk” and I thought “wow shanise you are brilliant”. So that’s that, I’ll be doing a wineost- wine post every Wednesday or every other Wednesday. Or maybe I’ll do it on Thursday. Guess we will see.

Today’s post is about how NONE of my exes look alike. I now realize after 28 years of dating fails that I don’t actually have a type. *gasp* I have a type for famous men afcourse, I’m not a animal! But real life boys , I’m not really bothered. As long as they’re cute and make me laugh. If you could see my list of exes/people i talked too. (Hides begins wine) I like to pretend I never dated any of them to be honest. And when I see them in public I run. Maybe one day I’ll indulge you all in my horror dating stories. Lol maybe not.

I am not okay with this premiere

The cast of the new Netflix show i am not okay with this, had their premiere the other night. And can I just say this is the cutest thing I’ve ever seen a cast do-fashion wise.

All wearing suits-iconic.

I am not okay with this review.

Netflix’s new series I am
Not okay with this is now available to binge and boy did I binge all 7 episodes. Only took me about 2 and half hours(my personal best). The show is about syd( a normal teenage white girl) who is dealing with the sudden loss of her father. She’s angry and awkward and is secretly inlove with her best friend. She befriends Stanley whos super dorky and cool and who takes a liking to her. Syd then notices that everytime she’s
Really angry she has powers. I will say that’s one of the things the show has going for it! The soundtrack is also amazing. I also
LOVE that Netflix casts actual teenagers to play teenagers! The cast is adorable and the chemistry is there! Personal fave and probably everyone’s fave after watching: STANLEY
BARBER! He’s just a good bean okay. No spoilers here but seriously watch it so we can get a season two! The last episode HOLY SHIT, I didn’t see that coming. I do think they could have sped it up a bit or gave us more episodes, I feel like a bit was missing. But I guess that just leads way for season 2. I give it 4/5. I’m curious now how they’ll do a second season after the finale! Happy binge!!