Life

“But what I’m trying to tell you all is life is hard. I mean like actually hard. Especially when you’re a 28 year old broken depressive-anxiety ridden weirdo who thinks she’s gonna die anytime she does anything remotely exciting. But what I’m telling you is life is hard. Especially when you are comfortable with your quirks. You love them. You fuck them. Only for people to hate them. Life is hard man. Especially when everyone is SHOUTING BE YOURSELF… and then you are and then they don’t like you. But the thing is life will always be hard, what matters most is getting back up to fight another round no matter how hard. Life is HARD. But anything worth having shouldn’t be easy. As cliche as it sounds, if it’s easy it’s not worth it. Because what will you learn if you get every thing you want every time you want it?”-shanise lachelle

Dear teenage shanise

  1. Your stepdad was right you’re gonna get your heart broken 100 million times over before you even hit 25.
  2. You don’t really like party’s or going out. But you’ll do it anyway to just socialize.
  3. You don’t like socializing all the time or making new friends. It’s exhausting.
  4. You’ve yet to find your tribe. But you will
  5. Your current friends don’t really get you and think you’re a weirdo. Newsflash you ARE A WEIRDO.
  6. You’re gonna date ALOT of fuckboys. So many you’ll convince yourself you’re a lesbian. (And maybe you are)And god is trying to teach you a lesson through suffering 🤷🏾‍♀️
  7. You will suffer greatly from depression and anxiety and very few people in your life will understand you. Or stick around
  8. You’ll give up trying to please everyone . And everyone will call you crazy and a bitch in return but oh well.
  9. You’ll launch a website and begin to work towards opening your own online shop. That’s the most exciting thing to come sis just you wait.😁
  10. You’ll experience life in ways you never thought you needed to . But it’ll break you and make you the strongest person you’ll ever know. Just hold on girl , there’s so much more in store for you. Hold on