Tag Archives: love yourself

Feeling old and dusted at 29

Something very strange happened within the months of vivid becoming a thing and my 29th birthday coming up…. I started reading these crappy sexual heterosexual novels and wanting to all of a sudden be married and have kids‼️ if you personally know me, it came out of nowhere and was super sudden and annoying. IContinue reading “Feeling old and dusted at 29”

Sex

Don’t be alarmed by the title. It’s truth time. The last few years have been something of a mind FUCk considering my sexuality. And I don’t mean in the way you’re thinking. Ever since I got boobs I was the center of attention for boys. Mix that with the fact that I was super tinyContinue reading “Sex”

Goodbye 2019

Here’s the thing, the god honest truth, 2019 was the hardest year I’ve had in a long time. I went fresh into the new year with a new job and a new semester of school and full of hope(New website). Ended up succeeding in work but failed an entire semester of school. I dropped outContinue reading “Goodbye 2019”

Hello the new me

This new me is a me I’ve secretly met many times before. But loudly afraid of reactions and loosing friendships I’ve kept her (closeted). I’ve always come back to her just to keep her hidden away. Safe. She was perfect . Pure. I didn’t want anyone to see her really or to ruin her. IContinue reading “Hello the new me”

LIZZO LIZZO LIZZO😋

Now I’ve seen miss LIZZO all over social media for being body positive and embracing and loving every INCH of herself and not apologizing for it. At first few glances I was like cool sis I support it. Never gave her a second glance. Then she just kept popping up all over my Instagram. AndContinue reading “LIZZO LIZZO LIZZO😋”

I cut my hair and have been living my BEST LIFE💥

I have been attached to my hair for as long as I can remember. And always had long nice healthy hair. And in the black community when you have long hair it’s a big deal. I’ve always loved short hair and thought it was really sexy for women to cut it all off. I justContinue reading “I cut my hair and have been living my BEST LIFE💥”

Why it’s okay to have high standards .

When I was younger women with high standards were always talked about so badly and how they needed to be softer with less standards if they wanted to find a man and have a family. And it’s still the same thing now. Most men hate when women have high standards and respect themselves. It’s muchContinue reading “Why it’s okay to have high standards .”