Why the company you keep is actually important

I like to believe I’m a pretty laid back person, actually I know I am . Which means I can pretty much befriend and gel with ANYBODY. Growing up I was always friends with such a diverse group of people. And it was always a issue for me, I learned pretty quickly that your friend groups aren’t going to always mesh well and it’s sometimes better to keep them separate to avoid all the drama. However the older I get and the more refined and polished I become , I’ve noticed that certain types of people I can no longer mesh with. I hate to judge people off first impressions and the way they carry themselves but I DO. IM all about first impressions, but I’m also a nice dummy who trys to befriend everyone and make everyone feel included. I often ignore the warning signs telling me this person is not for me and it’s gonna end bad, mostly because the voice in my head is my own worst enemy at times and it’s hard to believe her. And because I like to give people the benefit of the doubt no matter how much my gut is telling me not to . I’ve noticed when I hang with those people , I don’t feel like I can be myself and I have to make myself small and keep certain things about me locked away. Out of fear of them thinking I’m stuck up or too liberal or whatever. I lower my frequency to try and match theirs. Then when it all blows up over something stupid (because it always does) I end up feeling drained and like “why did I even waste my time?” I knew deep down this person was not for me but I STILL tried to make it work.

You can absolutely be friends with different types of people, but sometimes there’s people you don’t need to be friends with and you know it. Not that they’re beneath me or anything, it’s just their presence adds no value to my life or well being. I used to not care who I surrounded myself with. Now as I move forward and up with my life, I like to surround myself only with powerful women. Women who aren’t about pettiness and drama, but about their careers and business and being a better person. When you surround yourself with lo-class people with no ambition that’s what you become sooner or later. When you surround yourself with people who work hard and strive for the best, it pushes you to want to be a better person and to work harder.

I’m DONE with people who don’t match my hustle or frequency. They can stay low while I go high!!

Rain on me

Lady gaga and Ariana did what they had to do PERIOD!!! “I rather be dry but at least I’m alive”, I’m so happy Gaga has returned to the gaga we all know and fell in love with!! I understand she wanted to try other things and genres but this music is truly her lane!!! I LOVE this song and it’s video. I’m living for the robotic/alien early 2000s looks. It was perfect with gaga but you add Ariana and IM BALD HONEY!!! The looks, the choreography , the vibes , the message! This is the song we all needed but didn’t know we needed. It’s been on repeat since its debut! I can just imagine this song during pride and it makes me so GIDDY but sad that ms. Rona came and ruined our summer. I was surprised to see Ariana keep up with Gaga’s routines and happy gaga didn’t out-dance her and she stayed on the same pace with Ariana. This is an entire summer BOP. 5/5, check it out! I’m LOVING ALL these female features all the girls have been doing and I’m LIVING for this era GAGA!

Birds of prey preview

HI I had to upload this BEFORE even seeing the film because honestly I’ve HAD ENOUGH. Birds of prey was released Friday night and ALREADY( its only Saturday) people(men) are shitting on it and calling it a ” FEMINIST AGENDA”. And they’re tired of Hollywood pushing this theme/ agenda on them. They didn’t like charlies angels, the new terminator or Star Wars. They’re sick of it and it’s not realistic because they can’t relate to it. Okay sir who GIVES A FUCK?! This film is not made for sweaty 30 year men who live in their moms basement or have no social life! This is a female empowerment film made for… you guessed it WOMEN. It’s for us to see ourselves represented as strong leads and not just your sidekick love interests!!! The absolute FACT that you’re going to see this movie just to bash it and say “we don’t need another feminist film” PROVES the point that we in fact need to KEEP making these films until y’all get the fuck over it!!! This is the norm and NOT just some fantasy we’ve cooked up! Women and men are equals!! And we can do what you do and most of the time BETTER.

These films are directed by women, written by women and starring women for WOMEN. No one cares about your less than relevant opinion Adam. Take your sexist unwanted remarks elsewhere! But also thanks for spending 15 bucks to go see a movie you HATE. Giving us that top box office appeal!! And to the women who are also saying they hate these types of films: DO do BETTER JANICE. It’s not 1702. Do you wanna be a sidekick making less than men for the rest of your life?!!!Rant over. Go see the film and support these bad ass female actresses who had to train incredibly hard and did most of their own stunts!!! Support your local girl gang!! Women are the BEST!!!

Welcome poppy

Do you know how long I’ve been waiting for this type of -pop/rock/metal music to make a comeback?! My little emo/goth soul needed it!! I’m SO happy I’ve found poppy. Every single song in disagree is a BOP. Every one. Ever since Demi lovato started making pop music and the pretty reckless, I didn’t care for their last album so I’ve been seriously empty for a while. But miss poppy has revived me!! This album is seriously a 10/10 and goes right up there with my best albums of 2020. Every single song sounds different and the production is INSANE.

I used to see her everywhere a couple of years ago but she was so annoying just saying her name over and over. I’m glad she’s found a new direction and it seems less forced.

Her music takes me back to 2009-2013 and I’m here for it! Welcome poppy, I needed you.💀☠️❤️

Honest

“Honestly depression isn’t kind. It kills people and we know these are facts. Yet we still treat fragile depressed people like shit. Life can really suck sometimes. Like it isn’t all rainbows and unicorns. It’s blood , stress and tears. It’s your mind telling you you’ll never be worth anything. You’re nothing. It’s crying yourself to sleep some nights and waking up with a headache. It’s spending days in the bed. It’s functioning like a normal person at work then getting home and just sitting in one spot for hours. It’s daydreaming constantly about happy times and the day it’ll all end. It’s pushing yourself through it day by day even when you don’t want to. It’s loneliness. It’s emptiness. It’s just a black hole. It’s not talking about it cause it’s hard to explain and nobody really cares anyway. I’ll tell you honestly depression is NOT KIND, so maybe you should be… just a little if anything”