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What’s It Actually Like?
For the past 5 or 6 years I’ve struggled heavily with my sexuality. And worked really hard to figure out just what I wanted and what I actually liked. I feel like in 2019 is personally when I started to explore and become a little more of my true self. But of course had many… Continue reading
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Struggling in Queerness
In July of 2022 I entered my very first wlw relationship. And by February 2023 I was leaving that relationship. I had my very first wlw experience in the beginning half of 2022 with someone who I used to be very close with. But it ended up not being the best fit for me mentally… Continue reading
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Favorite Albums Of 2023
This year has been A LOT of things, but it definitely was a good year for music and even more so in the K-pop world. Here is a list in no particular order, of my favorite KPOP releases this year! The albums I had on repeat! 1. Sza- SOS(non kpop but one of my most… Continue reading
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New And Improved !
Welcome To the New and Improved ASTOLDBYSHANISE. We’ve decided the site needed a new vibe and entirely new feel going into the new year. We will still be your go to for ALL things K-pop , horror , and queer content. But now adding fashion, more pop culture and SHANIS SAYS. we hope you enjoy… Continue reading
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How The Heteronormative Ruined My Sense Of Fashion
Hey friends and we’re back with another Queer post. But before we get into it don’t forget to like, comment and subscribe to our blog for more LGTBQIA content. I’ve been in a constant state of coming out since 2017. Coming out, going back in and so fourth. The entire time I was IN I… Continue reading
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How Heteronormativity Ruined My Creativity.
Happy Monday Friends, and today we’re back with another Queer Post. Talking about how my experiences with heteronormativity ruined me in the biggest way. Make sure you’re subscribed and following for more content . And as always Thank you for all your support. Ever since I was young , I was a very imaginative and… Continue reading
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